I just have a bit of a story to tell. I've been a member of this legal forum for close to a year. Everytime I tried to stand up for the children involved in this situation I get called evil and names.
I am the child of a similar situation and maybe this will give these women; and I am a woman with children now a perspective, that they never had before.
My dad got involved with a woman, while being married to my mom, and she became pregnant. My dad up and left and divorced my mother with three kids mind you me and married this woman. She had a daughter, and later another daughter. My dad's family always claimed that the kids were not his, but for his sake the put up with it. I considered this two girls my siblings.I loved them, babysat them, played with them. Never looked at them as any other than my siblings.
When one of the girls turned eighteen, we had to go to court and restrain their mother from telling them that our dad, was not their dad. While B, turned eighteen, V was only 12. The courts were afraid of the consecuences it would have on the children. But, the gag order only lasted until V, turned eighteen. When my dad found this out, he had his first stroke. When V, turned eighteen, he had his second stroke. And finally passed away.
His two girls; and I will say it again MY SIBLINGS, WERE PROHIBITED FROM
GOING TO HIS FUNERAL!! Which I still resent. Now, they wont even talk to us; which I can't blame them. The only family they knew, turned their backs on them. Now, they want nothing to do with me.
I mourned the death of my dad and the loss of my two siblings, all at the same time, and to my mother's credit she paid for the attorney to impose the gag order, because she thought that it was not the kids fault and this was the only dad they knew.
But, the women on this forum, all they do is blame the parent and they don't realize the consequences of bringing such actions not against the mother but, against the kids. And only the innocent pay the consequences.
Now you tell me. Is this justice?

