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    I just have a bit of a story to tell. I've been a member of this legal forum for close to a year. Everytime I tried to stand up for the children involved in this situation I get called evil and names.
    I am the child of a similar situation and maybe this will give these women; and I am a woman with children now a perspective, that they never had before.
    My dad got involved with a woman, while being married to my mom, and she became pregnant. My dad up and left and divorced my mother with three kids mind you me and married this woman. She had a daughter, and later another daughter. My dad's family always claimed that the kids were not his, but for his sake the put up with it. I considered this two girls my siblings.I loved them, babysat them, played with them. Never looked at them as any other than my siblings.
    When one of the girls turned eighteen, we had to go to court and restrain their mother from telling them that our dad, was not their dad. While B, turned eighteen, V was only 12. The courts were afraid of the consecuences it would have on the children. But, the gag order only lasted until V, turned eighteen. When my dad found this out, he had his first stroke. When V, turned eighteen, he had his second stroke. And finally passed away.
    His two girls; and I will say it again MY SIBLINGS, WERE PROHIBITED FROM
    GOING TO HIS FUNERAL!! Which I still resent. Now, they wont even talk to us; which I can't blame them. The only family they knew, turned their backs on them. Now, they want nothing to do with me.
    I mourned the death of my dad and the loss of my two siblings, all at the same time, and to my mother's credit she paid for the attorney to impose the gag order, because she thought that it was not the kids fault and this was the only dad they knew.
    But, the women on this forum, all they do is blame the parent and they don't realize the consequences of bringing such actions not against the mother but, against the kids. And only the innocent pay the consequences.
    Now you tell me. Is this justice?

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    I just have a bit of a story to tell. I've been a member of this legal forum for close to a year. Everytime I tried to stand up for the children involved in this situation I get called evil and names.
    I just looked at every thread you've started. Nothing like that happened in any of those threads.
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    His two girls; and I will say it again MY SIBLINGS, WERE PROHIBITED FROM GOING TO HIS FUNERAL!! Which I still resent. Now, they wont even talk to us; which I can't blame them. The only family they knew, turned their backs on them. Now, they want nothing to do with me.
    It's unfortunate that they hold your father's family's actions against you.
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    But, the women on this forum, all they do is blame the parent and they don't realize the consequences of bringing such actions not against the mother but, against the kids. And only the innocent pay the consequences.
    Now you tell me. Is this justice?
    What are you talking about? The consequence of what action? Is what justice?

    From what you say, your siblings are mad because your father's family treated them like illegitimate garbage. There's no justice in that, but it's not the legal system's fault.

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    I was not blaming it on the legal system. I was just trying to find out if legally I could contact them, without bringing onto myself a restraining order.
    But, it's very true you get what you pay for.
    I did inquire about paternity of a child born out of wedlock for niece. I was told that the dad being illegal would not be able to sign the AOP, but he was.
    He did sign it. The hospital did not care, they did not even ask for an id.
    It happened in Hot Springs, Arkansas. Now, the child has no rights to child support because there's no way to track him down.
    There's no perfect answer. I was just looking from a different perspective than they were. They were looking at the parents and who did what to who?
    What about the inocent individuals, that were children at the time?
    So, maybe I am curious about it.
    I am sorry, I wont vent in this forum no more. I will limit myself to just viewing like before.

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    Cool Re: Paternity Fraud

    It's actually a little refreshing to see someone who thinks about the effect these problems will have on the kids. Sometimes those closest to the problem can't pull themselves away to be objective and consider what to tell the kids years later or how to explain their actions. Then again sometimes they are just too selfish.

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