I finally get some actual advice. You have no idea how helpful that is. Thank you so much for your time. We are trying to get her moved out but it is hard in the middle of a semester and with a lease on her apartment.
A big problem that she is running into in court is that she has no actual evidence against him besides her account of things. Because she never answered the phone during his massive call sprees they didn't end up on the phone records. And every time that he has threatened/ assaulted her there have been no witnesses.
On a side note. We recently figured out from his roommate that he was bragging about how he had planned out his attempted suicide in such a way that he would take enough pills to make himself seriously ill and not kill him. Which is almost scarier because he did it not because of internal problems but in order to hurt those around him.

