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    Question I Am on Probation and Married Someone on Probation in Same County

    My question involves criminal law for the state of: Kansas

    Help,
    I married my soulmate on 7/25/08 he gets off probation 3/31/09 and I just extended mine for 5 years to keep paying restitution that is the only reason. I was just mailing in my report and not having to see my officer. He got put in a halfwy house for being unemployed, not paying, and not going to anger managerment, alcohol evaluation and mental health.

    I applied to visit him and his officer agreed on the condition my officer would allow it. She called me that day and said get it annuled or i will revoke you and put you in prison. I ahve been paying on this since 2004 and sill owe 9,310.00. I work full time and haven't broken any more laws.

    I filed for the annulment but my heart is broken. I want to be with him but according to the public defenders that represented both our cases both judges are jerks and would probabally put me in for 5 months which is my sentence and put him in for the remaineer of his which is 70 days.

    I can't lose my daughter over this relationship so I am getting annulment but can they do this? Can they tell you who to marry? Can they tell you to shut off your cable and phone so you have more money to pay them?

    Just checking. Once he is off paper in March could we see each other? I would be still be paying restitution but we would not remarry until i am done. That is 7 years down the road at my current rate of payment.

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    Default Re: I Am on Probation and Married Someone on Probation in Same County

    Once you decided to break the law and become a criminal, you gave up certain rights, including the right to govern yourself, because you showed the government that you needed someone to tell you what to do and how to live for a while. Basically, your new parents grounded you.
    I can't lose my daughter over this relationship so I am getting annulment but can they do this?
    So, no, they can't MAKE you annul the marriage, however, since you've already proved to them that you are involved in and have contact with another person under supervision, they can prove you've violated your probation and make you suffer the consequences for your actions, which includes locking you up.
    Can they tell you who to marry?
    Again, no... however, they can tell you that if you choose to marry, you choose the consequence. Seems fair.
    Can they tell you to shut off your cable and phone so you have more money to pay them?
    It's not against the law to say that to you.
    Once he is off paper in March could we see each other?
    Depends on what YOUR conditions are.

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    Default Re: I Am on Probation and Married Someone on Probation in Same County

    You should shut off your cable and your phone and anything else that is not necessary to your survival at this point. Your main goal right now should be to pay off the restitution and get things straight.

    Get your marriage annulled unless you want to go back to jail. You can still love your husband without being married to him. Stay away from him for now though. If it's meant to "be", it will work out in the end.

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