Well, so far the judge hasn't tried to stop us. Every request that we have had he has granted. At the last hearing my husband's lawyer asked for the judge to grant the divorce and we objected and the judge upheld it. My attorney told me I could have anything I want because I have enough money (my parents) and he is friends with the judge. I don't care if its unethical or unhealthy. What I am concerned about is getting a new judge should the current one become ill. Would there be any repercussions in that case?