Quote Quoting Jeff KDad
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Ok, I guess an apology is warrented here. I have been stressed to the gills from this situation.
It DOES seem that she has been given all the right to keep my children from me, even though I have done nothing to lose the rights I SHOULD have the moment they were born. I find it repulsive that I should have to get a peice of paper signed by a judge and pay tens of thousands of dollars to prove that I am a worthy father when she has a man living with her beating my children. I want to protect them and she's doing everything possible to prevent that.

None the less I apologize to any ladies that I may have offended. Not every woman is the same as my ex. I do understand this. I am just a little bitter due to my current situation.
Please accept my apology.
I'm a mom & a stepmom, and by no means am I offended. There are some stories on this forum similar to yours, and it does seem as if the mothers are usually granted most of the rights from the get go.

My point though, is that's not important right now. What is important, is that you somehow find an attorney to represent you and the kids NOW. You need to do whatever it takes to protect your kids, and if she doesn't like it, too damn bad. Speak with an atty as soon as you can to seek physical and legal custody, and also file for child support. There's alot more to it, but your atty will advise you of all that he/she can do for you.

Good luck and stay strong, and if it's proven that the S.O.B. is really abusing your kids, file criminal charges against him and do whatever it takes to make the charge stick.