
Quoting
Grimsfury
It has been decided that I am going out of town for a while. This will give my boyfriend and I time apart, and we can also work out our personal issues. He can work things out with his ex about their children, and I can get myself back onto my feet. I will work, save up and get a car, then work and save up to return. Doing this I can bypass the off season where I am now. I also will visit via bus, train, or driving, and will send money that would be needed for my son.
I would love to take my son with me, but there is a paternity test applied for, meaning the baby MUST NOT leave the state. If I take him with me, I can be charged with kidnapping, and lose all my rights as a parent. SO, he will stay with his daddy.
ALSO, with me not being here, his bills get downsized by 3/4, meaning he pays 200 rent/mo, 50 car insurance/mo, and the 1 bill agreed by his rental contract, which is about 135/mo. The rest goes to savings. I will put all my spare money first towards a car, then after that whatever is leftover will go to savings. Every now and then I will also visit, like I said, so if I have spare money ahead of time, and all our personal issues are worked out, I may come back home sooner than expected.