so again my question is i cannot show a support for him is that ok? he can support himself while here.... im jus worried coz i have no job right now thats al i will find a job after i get out of school... and hes gna find a job when he can establish status here.... so what's ur best advice for me? marry him there or here? even if i marry him there hes gna have to wait for spouse visa right? anyways let me know what u think ok ... thanks alot ur a big help .. im jus worried about the support part mostly.... i know he can show he can support himself .. he does own part of a business there... so i dnt think its problem... and his family is willing to helop him out so ... but anyway get back to me ok thanks alot

