"Again, as other posters have noted, the best defense is to follow the path of having sex with persons that you are in long term committed relationships with. Outside of that, every "stint" opens the door for you to find out exactly how unpleasant, vindictive, mental, psycho, or gold-digging the other person, who you don't really know that well, can be."
Believe it or not, I'm in total agreement with you. I basically had been in a long term relationship but when I think about women I dated/slept with 20 years ago,
I definately would not have slept with most of them, knowing what I know now.
No I didn't get any STD's, no I'm not wealthy or a celebrity, but the fact is alot of them I didn't know and I wouldn't have taken the chance in retrospect of someone turning out to be a nutcase.



