Quote Quoting dawn123
Can monies be divided now , then sale of house devided later?
Normally, the estate would be settled with debts and taxes paid before money is distributed. You previously indicated that the lawyer for the estate did not want money distributed at this time - it seems unlikely that money will be distributed before the lawyer tells your brother to proceed with distribution.

Quote Quoting dawn123
Also, brother wants to buy us out how do we know what a fair buyout is?
You either agree upon a price, or get an appraisal (ideally, jointly selecting an appraiser and agreeing to follow the appraiser's valuation).