I agree, and I also suggested counseling.

However, for the previous poster to start bringing up some sort of weird BSDM reference was out there.

Further, anytime that a woman (or man) says no, the answer is no. Even if they have already had sex 10 times that night.

I wanted to make that point very clear.

I am also curious as to the legal component. If all the OP wanted was rape counseling, why would she be at a legal site asking for the information?