My question involves restraining orders in the State of: Virginia
Here is the situation--
on 4/30/2008, I filed a temporary restraining order against my ex husband due to threats of violence against myself and my fiancee at the time.
I was scheduled for a hearing for a permanent one on 5/9/08
On 5/1(after he was served) - my ex husband in turn filed an order against my fiance.. which is called a temporary peace order.
His final hearing was before my own, so he was able to get a final order for six months against my fiancee.
( he was never served so it has to be retried) it was listed on the website as being vacated-- but will be retried on 5/27 )
On 5/9 I was granted a two year protective order for no contact other than to speak with his son.
My question is as follows--
My order states no family abuse- and family abuse is defined as to also include my fiancee due to he is also a hh resident .
Does my restraining order mean anything? There was an altercation and i filed charges- however he in turn filed charges against my fiance for violation of his order....when he violatied his own!!!
Im just wondering if the judge would see this is nothing but a tit for tat issue.

