Was I Raped?

[usedbranflakes]

You can always talk to a sex crimes detective and let them determine.
You can always talk to someone on a victim hotline.

I had a close friend of mine lose her virginity this way and it was terrible to even think about it. She spent years dating different guys and could never really tack down a relationship. She was punished for something that was the fault of St--------.

I can no longer advocate violence (though I sure could do so as a teen); her big brother took care of the issue in lieu of bringing the police in on it. He was actually the cooler head that prevailed.

I have a close friend that had another close friend pet her heavily. Then, all of a sudden, he was inside her. She had never told him no and there wasn't much that she could do about it.

...and there is something REALLY WRONG when a 25 year old man pursues a 17 year old girl. I even felt creepy when I was at a college with friends (at 25) and hung out with an 18 year old and a 21 year old. They were college "kids" and the 21 year old showed interest. Granted, I am the same guy that felt creepy as a Senior and getting hit on by a Freshman.

[texasgirl08]

so i can't do anything. Well ok i was just wondering thanks for the help

[seniorjudge]

so i can't do anything. Well ok i was just wondering thanks for the help

No, that is not what we said.

Re-read the posts.

Don't invite someone into your bedroom unless you plan to have sex with him or her.

[texasgirl08]

so can my mom do anything i mean if she finds out she would want to know what she could do.

[seniorjudge]

so can my mom do anything i mean if she finds out she would want to know what she could do.

Print out this thread and give it to her.

[texasgirl08]

Ok but will I get into trouble??? Im just so scared. I know it was my fault for even going with him but i just feel that I was used I should have spoken up when i got the chance but hes crazy and I didn't know what to do. Thank You so much

[CourtClerk]

You will not get in trouble. He will not get in trouble.

But if your mom wants to do something, she can sit you down and have a talk with you about responsible dating. She seems not to have had that discussion with you yet. She can also talk to you about boys being with you in and around beds, which is another place they shouldn't be, nor should you be with them. There is a WHOLE LOT she can talk to you about, none of them have anything to do with sending this boy to jail, but more to do with helping you develop into a responsible woman.

Good luck. And like Senior Judge said... print out this thread and give it to her.