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  1. #1
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    Apr 2008
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    Default Re: Marriage Fraud - I'm The Victim

    Me too. I met my Philippine wife by accident on the net. I wasn't even interested, but she kept e-mailing me after I complimented her on a nice profile. I called and we talked then she called twice a day from Hong Kong. I talked, but did not really want the expense and hassles, plus how could I be sure? She was 47 and I 58 at the time. Yet the twice daily calls began to touch me. She was so attentive, and always interested in my health and my life in general. After four months I went to meet her and her family. After another five months of her phone calls, and our video chats. I asked if she wanted to come here. I don't have the space here for all the details, but I had no doubt that she wanted what I wanted.

    Later I found that the cancer that I thought in remission had returned. I told her to find someone else, because I had no idea how long I had left. She scolded me and professed her love. Based on ten months of daily contact, I suspected that she was sincere.


    She arrived, and we married a month later. We had what I thought to be normal growing pains over the next few months. She met another filipina and things began falling apart fast. She stayed on the phone, or went to her girlfriend's house whenever she could. I was becoming invisible slowly. She began looking at live-in housekeepr jobs on the internet. When I asked she claimed that she was just curious about the pay. Obviously I became uneasy. Then a problem with her I-485 came up and she was denied residency. I got right on it filing an appeal since it was only based on one form that was incorrect. She became distant and cold. I continued doing all that was necessary, but a notice to appear for removal came. Now she started talking about abuse, too little money, general bad treatment. She refused to talk with me about that or anything else. I even heard her tell a friend that I was stupid.

    I explained that we had only made one error, so we'd go to the hearing with all the paper, and based on our lawyer's guidance, we could expect that she'd be granted residency at the hearing or at least not be deported, and we'd be able to straighten it all out.

    She became more hostile and began accusing me of things that never happened and repeating bad treatment and abuse. We were rarely in the same room at home now, and she was on the computer an or phone from morning till night. I found many of my financial records in her possession quite by accident. I removed them and all the older records from the house and locked the current records in my cabinet.

    I went out one afternoon, came home and she and ALL her possessions were gone. She left a letter accusing me of lying and abusing her.

    I looked at the history on the computer she used mostly, and it was primarily searches for live-in jobs in numerous states. In her e-mail I found that she had found a job, and was even trying to get a visa to go to England.

    I have a plan though. I'll let you know how this ends soon.

  2. #2
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    Default Re: Marriage Fraud - I'm The Victim

    Yes, please let us know how it goes. I am interested in finding out. These people will stop at nothing to get into America.

  3. #3
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    Default Re: I'm The Victim Of Marriage Fraud

    iT IS VERY SAD. BUT THIS THING HAPPEND, EVEN IF YOU MARRIAGE ANOTHER US CITIZEN IT COULD GET INTO A DIVORCE!!!!!!!

    I THINK NOTHING IN THIS LIFE IS GUARANTEE!!!!!!
    GOOD LUCK

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