I sympathize with all of you.

YKMendes...I met a Ghanaian guy in May of 2005 who was here on a student visa, trust me...I knew of the scams and am very self protective. He was talking commitment on our second or third date. I always questioned him about whether he had a wife in Ghana and if he had ulterior motives and he always denied. Three months into the relationship, I found out he had a wife in Ghana and it is a documented, legal marrige per the wife (yes, I actually called Ghana and spoke with her). To make a long story short...we continued to "fool around". He was cheating on me with a Ghanaian American woman (who recently had his baby by the way). She was going to marry him for a green card until she received the call from me. He then found another African American woman who agreed to marry him for a green card. So now there's four women in the picture: myself, the documented wife in Ghana, the Ghanaian American "baby momma" who is a joint sponsor and the documented wife in America. Now there are three women in the picture minus me...but I kindly reported his butt to ICE (Immigrations and Customes Enforcement) on the grounds of marriage fraud and bigamy. I reported him June '07 and he got his green card February '08, not sure of the investigation status, but surely bigamy should count for something.