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Kisitu1969
I am going through the exact same thing. My husband was working on a research project at a Universtiy here in the US when we met and subsequently was married. In retrospect, I can see that my husband knew everything there was to know about immigration law very early in our relationship. However, I wrote it off because my husband is very intelligent and enjoys research. Now I can see that gaining legal residence in this country was his only mission. During the marriage I also discovered that he and other members of his family defrauded the Swedish government gaining entry by pretending to had abducted and abused by a sex ring. The I-485 is still pending. Is there anything I can do to stop him from staying in this country? We separated a couple of times prior to this final separation a few months ago. I discovered communication with women in foreign coutries but, of course, my husband declared he did not marry me for citizenship. We separated for good in February, just before our 3rd anniversay, he informed me that he cared noting about me or my children, he had what he came here for, had his own plans, and there was nothing I could do about it.