
Quoting
southernbelle08
Actually when there is a shared parenting order put in place the judge sees both parents as fit to raise the child as a joint effort.
My moving away didn't even prompt the judge to change the shared parenting plan because of the circumstances: my ex husband and I agreed to this plan after following through with mediation. My ex husband has not kept his part of the agreement by allowing my daughter to visit me once a month as she is entitled to, phone calls with her are limited to five minutes and during that five minutes I hear nothing but my ex husband and his wife telling my daughter to tell me things over the phone. This upsets and confuses her and I refuse to put up with it any longer. My ex has cut off all communication with me because he wants to prove something to his wife....the only thing he is proving is his lack of maturity. Her grades are dropping and he takes his frustrations out on her. I'm just looking out for my daughter's best interests. Don't judge me by reading a little information on a post. I'm asking for advice not judgement. I moved out of Ohio to better my life as I have had a new husband for the past eight years and we have two children that have an amazing, supportive family down here. My daughter deserves the same and is NOT getting that in Ohio. I have been a very selfless human being the past ten years. I could have taken her down here with me but gave my ex the benefit of the doubt to be a good father. My daughter was happy with her school and her friends and I didn't want to be selfish and take that away from her just because I was moving. The situation has changed with her therefore, my situation calls for action to protect my daughter and that is what I intend to do. DNA test or not. I will go back to court and seek full custody.