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    Default Me And My Boyfriend

    Well I'ma start of by saying i am 16 yrs old and my boyfriend is 17. I love him soo much and i know he loves me, but he is in a gang called MSx13 and im scared that somehting might happen to him because i wouldn't know what to do..the only way to get out is for him to join the army which i don't want him to or to have a baby. I want to have a baby with him at some point but im thinking im too young right now..but then again i want him out of that life. He regrets it but i mean that doesn't do anythign whats done is done.

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    MSx13 is a very vicious gang based in NYC. They made the Latin Kings look like boy scouts. I suggest your 'boyfriend' join the Unted States Marine Corps.

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    I don't know much about the marines or army or none of that all i know is that close friends and family have left me for training hes the only person i have and it would be hard for me to see him leave. Having a kid isn't easy either i mean im not ready but i think with help i can do it. If i was to get pregnant can my mom force me to get an abortion? im 16 turning 17 in september.

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    You, a child, are considering having a child with a boy who is in a gang.


    Am I too old to comprehend this or is it spring break time?

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    I know I am young but I have never had my parents around i have always taken care of myself. I want a future with him but i also want a good future for myself I am about to start my last year of school. I don't want to drop out because school has always been a way for me to get away from everything and i want to continue to college and do something for myself i know that if i put my mind to it i can have a baby and take good care of it, give it what it needs, and give the baby all the love it can get. My boyfriend is willing to work more and provide for the baby but, it's hard for me and i dont tell him this but he doesn't have much to lose..I don't think he cares much about his future like i do about mine.

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    I don't think he cares much about his future like i do about mine.
    After typing this alarm bells should going off in your head. Do you think if you have an innocent child together it is going to change him? Do you have any idea how hard it is to raise a child in a financially and mentally stable marriage let alone be a teen-aged single mother with a child who is fathered by a gang member.

    I dont know what else to say to this. I really don't. I'm scared for the future of this country if your thought process represents even a fraction of today's youth.

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    He is not a bad guy. He wants to change his life around but is not so easy living where he lives..I want this to work but i know that raising this child is not going to be easy. Honestly, I am not ready to have this child i dont even know what im thinking right now..I want a good life for myself and well i want him to be apart of it i just wish he wasn't in a gang.

    I am not planning on having a baby soon. I will wait until i am fully prepared.

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    Quote Quoting ilv3rambo
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    He is not a bad guy. He wants to change his life around but is not so easy living where he lives..I want this to work but i know that raising this child is not going to be easy. Honestly, I am not ready to have this child i dont even know what im thinking right now..I want a good life for myself and well i want him to be apart of it i just wish he wasn't in a gang.

    I am not planning on having a baby soon. I will wait until i am fully prepared.

    See, you're already headed in a positive direction because you recognize the fact that you have a lot to do before you're ready for the stress and lifetime committment of children. Stick with your plans to finish school. Then get a job or go to college (ther are a lot of scholarships & grants out there).

    If your boyfriends wants to get out bad enough, he'll do it. You're not going to be able to rescue him.

    Good luck and stick to your plans.

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    Default Re: Me And My Boyfriend

    Why is this posted in banter? And, at that, a day late for April Fool's?

    If you're not just yanking people's chains, post in an appropriate forum. Thanks.

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