Two months ago a neighborhood family was in crisis and ask that I help. We agreed he could stay with me and we would work together on a solution. The child started counseling, the mother continued with her counseling, sought psychiatric treatment for herself, and everyone continued to work towards the goal of him returning home. Today the child and I were asked to attend mediation with the mother's counselor. In my opinion, it was not mediation, it was an intervention. In short, the counselor told me to turn my back and not offer a home so that the child would be forced to move back home. If I did not agree, CPS would get involved. The child is a junior in high school and turns 18 in 11 days. Legally on the child's 18th birthday, can he choose to live with us?


