Dee your angry (I get it) you want someone to pay for your pain. I know I was a victim of a cheater as well. However I put the blame where it belonged on the cheater (my Ex) not the other, her employer etc etc. I moved forward cared for my children and now am married to the most wonderful womanin the world who is both a Mother to our children and a wife to me. Your angry clouds your thinking. Legally, heck even morally your cheating husbands actions are his and his alone not his employer. Once your anger calms down you will realize this. You have no legal action against employer. Put your efforts into healing yourself and helping your children move forward. Without hating Dad (very important)