Results 1 to 10 of 17

Hybrid View

  1. #1
    Join Date
    Mar 2008
    Posts
    10

    Default Re: Can I Sue My Husband's Work For His Cheating?

    Also, airline employees have to bid for their schedules. With the first girl, he had some seniority and she was new, so had NO seniority. They would still bid for the same schedules and his supervisors and the station manager would then have to approve it. Every shift they bid matched. The last bid they did together was for overnights, which basically allowed them to be completely ALONE in their station all night! This was AFTER they all went on the trip together, so his Supervisors knew about the relationship. These are his Management, his bosses, they basically helped him cheat on his wife.

  2. #2
    panther10758 Guest

    Default Re: Can I Sue My Husband's Work For His Cheating?

    Dee your not listenning to what your being told. His employer cannot be held accountable for your husbands poor choices

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Jun 2006
    Location
    Massachusetts
    Posts
    24,521

    Default Re: Can I Sue My Husband's Work For His Cheating?

    Dee, please pay careful attention.

    No. You cannot sue your husband's employer.

    No matter how much you want to hold them responsible, the law does not. This answer is not going to change no matter how many times you come back with, But they...

    Your husband's employer has NO responsibility for his infidelity under the law.

  4. #4
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Posts
    2,652

  5. #5
    Join Date
    Aug 2007
    Posts
    3,835

    Default Re: Can I Sue My Husband's Work For His Cheating?


    That was an excellent citation!!

    I was getting ready to post my thoughts about the Law of Agency, etc. but read the case first, so my thoughts are moot!!

    I am quite sympathetic with you also Deeisme, but many times there is no legal remedy for "hurt", as this is why only a handful of states still recognize this tort and also criminal conversation, your typical "heart balm' torts.

    I will readily admit some states still have adultery on the criminal books, but I do not know if ILL is one, and even if it is, prosecutions for such are "extremely rare"!!

    Best wishes.

  6. #6
    Join Date
    Dec 2007
    Location
    Ohio
    Posts
    2,006

    Default Re: Can I Sue My Husband's Work For His Cheating?

    Hi Dee
    I feel your pain and so does everyone who's hooked up with an idiot. I can't explain it other than a mid life crisis. The only one to blame here lies with your husband. That doesn't make it hurt less. Time does heal wounds and it does get easier. I like to believe that everything happens for a reason and maybe the reason here is that you have sold yourself short of what you deserve. Since you took the comforting road here the first time, maybe its that the "love God's" are looking out for ya here. You deserve better than this and you should not tolerate it, accept it or continue living like this.

    Get some professional help to deal with the immediate anger. It's natural. Do it for your kids and yourself.

    And just maybe the company would then at least have to look at their policies and procedures and be sure to find ways to prevent this kind of "buddy system" mentality and abuse of their company priveledges from continuing to exist in their workplace.
    This is never going to happen. Companies are for profit not for babysitting adults. Buddy systems have always existed and will continue to exist until it becomes sexual harrassment, then the company will intervene but thats a different matter. Your husband is a grown adult and is at free will to make his own decisions even if they are poor ones. It sucks but thats the way it is. He will not be considered the greatest catch by the next unsuspecting woman after he paycheck goes to you for child and spousal support. Get a good lawyer and quickly. One that is shark like in nature. Make sure that you are the plaintiff so he can answer to some alligations that are put on him.

    I witnessed his married station manager pour tequilla shots for the 20-yr-old ramp agent at the Holiday Party who was hanging on him later on the dance floor, while his wife was not there. And I know about the other married supervisor who went on that trip and is NOW divorced. This is a I help you, you help me situation. My X told me tons of stories, some of which I saw, all the time playing that he was the "good one" there.
    This is where I lose sympathy. He already cheated on you once and you witnessed the behavior of the coworkers at parties. Why were you surprized it happened again? Your anger is stemming from believing the loads of crap oozing from his pie hole. This is not the fault of the company, it belongs solely with the husband and not you for taking him back and believing him. Please for the sake of your children, get professional help and don't hesitate to send the bill to the ex. Don't make life comfortable for him again.
    I'm sorry that this happened to you.

    1. Sponsored Links
       

Similar Threads

  1. Alienation of Affection: Husband is Cheating, Has a Child With the Other Woman
    By Desha in forum Divorce, Annulment and Separation
    Replies: 3
    Last Post: 05-18-2011, 05:10 PM
  2. Husband (and Dad) Died and Cheating Separated Spouse Wants Half of Estate
    By vetman in forum Estate Planning, Administration and Probate
    Replies: 5
    Last Post: 04-05-2011, 05:15 PM
  3. Marriage: Found Out Husband Was Cheating and Now I Want to Cancel the Green Card Process
    By ineedhelpplease in forum Visas for Business, Tourism and Family
    Replies: 7
    Last Post: 04-13-2010, 10:52 AM
  4. Divorce: Divorce From Abusive, Cheating Husband
    By christinalf in forum Divorce, Annulment and Separation
    Replies: 3
    Last Post: 05-05-2008, 05:29 AM
  5. Claiming Benefits: What Survivor Benefits are Available if Your Spouse Passes Away at Work
    By Ginas in forum Worker's Compensation
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: 03-27-2007, 07:54 AM
 
 
Sponsored Links

Legal Help, Information and Resources