Hi everybody,

The story is a bit long and I will try to make it as shorta s possible. Before we even met, my husband met his ex wife in Clombie. what was supposed to be an 'exotic" affair turned out to marriage after she told him she was pregnant. what he didn't know, she was already pregnant as they met but she wanted to come to the USA. One week before child was born, she told him he was not the father, which he understood, since baby was full term, and born 5 months after they met.

A few months later she left him, but she asked him to keep the marriage legal so she could get US citizenship. He accepted, he was deeply attached to the boy and would have accepted anything to remain in his life.


Then we met, he got a divorce and we got married. The lawyer at that time suggested he would claim the fraud, since she used him to come to the USA and have a green card, he didn't.

In the meantime, the boy knew that my husband wasn't the bio father. Hence, since my husband signed on the birth certificate, he is considered as legal father, he pays 900 $ cs. In the meantime, we got a daughter that was constantly harassed by the boy, he tried to hurt her several times, would wake her up, sneak in her bedroom, call her names, was interested in her anatomy, and I felt very concerned about my daughter safety. So I asked my husband to meet the boy somewhere else. My husband is so afraid to lose that boy that he prefered to move out. And he doesn't provide anything for his daughter. I am a full time mother, work from home though, as a translator. he never buys anything, neither toys, nor clothes, I've been providing for her since she was born. The ex always finds an excuse to get more money from him, besides the CS, he gives her a few extras, and she is married ! she is very manipulative and abusive, and the last surprise was that she files her son on her tax while my husband has got the tax exemption. She just violated their divorce agreement and he let her go away with it.

Moreover, a few conversations some time ago with the boy made me understand his mother would get cs from the bio father, but doesn't say anything so she keeps both men paying.

I would like to precise I live in Fl, is there any good and agressive lawyer that you could recommend ? Is there anything I could do to stop that abuse ? Is there any legal way to require a DNA test for both children to reestablish the truth and stop this fraud and abuse?
Thank you so much for your help