Its amazing how this day and age a lot of rules and regulations and laws change when it comes to protecting children. Not that I dont mind the hassle of this change, but you do not want to mess with CPS if they feel that the child is not living in a good place. Your daughter is 14 years old and in a perfect world, she should be getting dressed in her own room instead of getting dressed in the living room. Now, the bathroom is probably her only option for getting dressed but where is the privacy of having her own room though? Teenagers should like to have their own rooms as they get older and such. Your daughter is not going to be happy in this situation I am sure. Sit down with your daughter and ask her if she feels she would be better off sleeping on a bed or the futon...I know when I had a futon it was not so comfortable to sleep in.