I am really scared to lose my children to my exe. He does not want to pay child supoport and has not for the last 3 years that we have been apart. Every time I beg him to help me he has 101 excuses not to, and then when I tell Him I am going to file he says he is going to help but then does not.

Now we are going back to court for the second time. He is trying to gain posession of all 3 of my kids even though they only go with him on the weekends and lives in another county.

He is trying to say they reside with him. The first trial his side was only looked at because the venue was supposed to get changed to the county where they go to school in, It was determined that the Venue was granted but they went and filed the same papers again same petition and temp restraining order but with a different Judge .

That was extended and now I am in front of the same Judge again from the first trial. They tried to make me look like I am unfit and am neglectful and abusive towards my kids even though I am not all 3 of my kids do NOT want to live with him.

my daughter even told the judge that, She is 10 and was his witness. The first go around they tried to say because school the kids are not in my posession , which I do not get because I have the right to take them out any time and I have the right to see them in school which I do on a regular basis, and because I work on occasion at night I dont spend enough time with them .

Even though i am self employed and have an open schedual . I guess because I have my BF come pick me up on occasion when I get off at 2 a.m. and has to get my kids out of bed to come get me that I am unfit But yet my kids are A honar roll students.

And because on occasion In the past my son was caught playing down the street with his friends after dark one time to be exact and he was hard to find one time when his dad came to pick him up I am neglectful. I dont bake cakes for my kids birthday I buy them I am not a fit mother according to his lawyer. Will this cause me to lose my children to him?