I have a couple of questions about marriage in one state and divorce in another.

I was married in Texas and have lived in Missouri the ENTIRE marriage of 6 years. We are looking to divorce and I am needing to know which laws we are supposed to follow...TEXAS or MISSOURI divorce laws? I contacted and met with an attorney a week ago and he went through the process and was rather rude so I will not be using him BUT...I was never asked WHERE we were married and he proceeded to tell me how divorce works in MO....but am I seeking the wrong council?

More info: we have 2 children born in MO. I'm a sahm and a college student and recently asked about spousal support in MISSOURI on this forum. But now I wonder if I'm supposed to look at TX law instead?

Any information would be appreciated.