I know it's very confusing, I am trying to find an attorney but they all seem way out of my budget, see the whole point in wanting to move so we are financally stable??? I have talked to the courts and they are the ones who have told me that I could just move, that I did not need permission or to have to contact the court, about three people at the courthouse told me that, also one lawyer i talked with said the same thing, I just know that's not the right Morally way to go about this, thanks for your info and imput, it's really been helpful