Good luck getting your fair share.
Well, for the record, I never recommended you playing the role of detective and providing that information.
Regarding the e-mail, you may want to check with your attorney regarding who actually owns the e-mail in your state and what the wiretapping statutes say.
You can always, as a creditor, subpoena the e-mails from his ISP in the off chance there is evidence that you can utilize in the e-mails.

