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    Exclamation Child's Mother Is Living With A Sex Offender

    I'm writing under my wife's name. I'm currently living with her and her son in North Carolina, and we are expecting another child very soon. I have litterally banged my head against a wall for almost 4yrs for what my son's mother has done not only to me, but our child. She got pregnant, which I was happy. And we had our little boy, but soon after she had him things got rocky between us. So I left and took my responsibilities seriously. Then shortly after she put him into a foster home, after several days I found out what she had done and immediately picked him up. I was furious with her, and in the original custody papers my mother still has the most custody of our son (I wasn't in a stable enough environment as my mother was, but I still took care of him.). So now back and forth and back and forth have we gone with child support enforcement in Pennsylvania. According to them they are taking out the alotted amount for child support. Leaving me a mear $35-50 a paycheck. When the paycheck starts out at over $350. Now I understand taxes, but what she is doing is getting every bit of money she can out of me till the new child arrives so that she can suck us dry. My wife cannot work due to a high risk pregnancy. I found out last summer that she is dating a registered sex offender on the Megans Law website. My mother was concerned about this and called his probation officer up and explained what was he doing around her grandson. He's legally not supposed to be around any children, what so ever. And yet after his probation officer told him you can't go around her. She continues to go around him behind everyone's back. I then found out yesterday that she is now wearing an engagement ring on her finger, and we can all guess who gave it to her. Everyone knows, and yet nothing is being done about this. I don't want my child around a sex offender. Yet she is getting away with this, I'm paying out the butt for child support. And she's sitting back wearing this "ring" and I feel like I'm getting used. What do I do? I've called Child Protective Services and warned them of the situation and let them know about what is going on. I had to give all information about him and her. I even have pictures of my son hanging around this guy. I want him caught and I want her in jail for staying with him. She won't give me any custody because she thinks that I'll run to the mexican border with him. I kinda can't due to my wife, her child, and then having my son. That would be way too much, but she's crazy. Now I want this to stop and I want custody, FULLY! Please help!

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    Default Re: Pennsylvania Help From Desperate Father In North Carolina

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    According to them they are taking out the alotted amount for child support. Leaving me a mear $35-50 a paycheck. When the paycheck starts out at over $350.
    I'll wait for others to reply for the other parts of your post, but I will address the CS.

    The Consumer Credit Protection Act limits the amount that can be garnished. In your situation the max amount will be 55% of your net (after tax) income. They are apparently deducting way too much.

    Go to http://www4.lawcornell.edu/uscode/#TITLES print out the act in Title 15 chapter 41 and take a copy to your employer and send a copy to the state to remind them that they cannot garnish more than 55%.

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    Default Re: Pennsylvania Help From Desperate Father In North Carolina

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    I'll wait for others to reply for the other parts of your post, but I will address the CS.

    The Consumer Credit Protection Act limits the amount that can be garnished. In your situation the max amount will be 55% of your net (after tax) income. They are apparently deducting way too much.

    Go to http://www4.lawcornell.edu/uscode/#TITLES print out the act in Title 15 chapter 41 and take a copy to your employer and send a copy to the state to remind them that they cannot garnish more than 55%.
    Unfortunately, I have tried to let them know. In the state of PA they HAVE to leave you with a net income of $748.00 a month. AFTER taxes and medical. He's getting LESS than $300.00 a month with everything they take out. His check 2 weeks ago was $0.00. HOW can a person live on that? (This is the wife putting her in thoughts and comments!) I can't stress enough that she gets away with everything, and he pays for it. I don't know of a person who should in his situation due to who she is dating and everything else.

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    Default Re: Pennsylvania Help From Desperate Father In North Carolina

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    Unfortunately, I have tried to let them know. In the state of PA they HAVE to leave you with a net income of $748.00 a month. AFTER taxes and medical. He's getting LESS than $300.00 a month with everything they take out. His check 2 weeks ago was $0.00. HOW can a person live on that? (This is the wife putting her in thoughts and comments!) I can't stress enough that she gets away with everything, and he pays for it. I don't know of a person who should in his situation due to who she is dating and everything else.
    Take my previous advice and print out the law, give it to both the employer and the CSE, NICELY explain that they are breaking FEDERAL law and then DEMAND that they stop.

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