just wondering when enough is enough, ex is still not working and refuses to get a job she has one child living with her and she is in school all day. She was going to school herself but did not go all summer or yet this year, because she said it would interfere with her going on a cruise with her boyfreind. meanwhile I have 2 of our children and am working my butt off to keep her happy and barely making ends meet. why cant she be forced to find work? she says she will be taking classes again soon but she can only handle 2 classes a semester and at that rate she will never graduate from college. she is 40 years old what can i do?

