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    Unhappy Spouse Cheating, And Is Willing To Sign Out Of Court

    I live in arkansas: My spouse is cheating on me-- he doesn't know I accessed the phone records- Can texting be admisable? I wrote up the documents (No Dates) his attourney advised him not to file the papers the way I wrote them because I could come back on him anytime-- we have a ranch together and lots of equipment-- my phone is in his name-it's a cell - only one I have- I am a full a full time college student--I'm not working because he didn't want me to because my grades dropped when i was working. The papers i wrote up are: we shall remain business partners and friends for benefit of both parties no body-else(i.e) future relations have right to the farm or it's monies or equipment should something happen to one of us? All proffits and farm property to remain in both names unless property sold. then he has to give me half the value or buy me out. Should something happen to him, his annuity and all farm equipment and assets of farm go back to me. He has to buy my youngest daughter a car like he promised. All live stock is in both names and profit thereof is split have expenses. he has to pay my bills till i am up on my feet-- No definition of on my feet.---
    he has to get my teeth fixed as I let my health go taking care of him-- He is a recovering severe traumatic brain injury patient-- he is on alot of meds- and has ballance and memory problems and because of his injury is now diabetic. I have told him(even though he denies it-- the woman he is with is not aloud on or near our property and livestock-- It is in the papers that no-one but he and I can handle the livestock unless we agree to training by outside sources. No-one has the right to the farm--farm accounts-- assets or property of the farm. Should anything happen to one of us the other one gets the farm and its assetts. I'm trying to figure out how to make sure my kids are protected- they are not his-- we have been married almost twelve years and together 13. He left me almost 60 days ago-- comes and goes as he pleases- and comes home for sex- laundry and whatever he wants to do---- he says I don't have legal right to claim abandonment- because he does come home and call to check on the farm, I don't have mental cruelty charge rights cuz he says my kids walk all over him-- I gave one child's custody to my ex-husband cause they couldn't get along and my son wouldn't mind-- I disowned family members over him-- other 2 kids have been thrown out but alowed to come back- and the third never did come home she moved to Missouri. He walked away from his dad when we got married--- he has told me that letting the kids do whatever it is they did is exactly like cheating on him-- that's his reasoning- oh-- by the way -- His injury doesn't effect his thinking on dayly things it slows him down and he has to think about what he's doing-- it does not incapacitate him!!! he can't hold a job because he has to do things at his pace-- slower-- he does know wrong from right and is good with finace decisions-- I stayed with him through flashback of war and the wreck while he learned to walk and talk again-- put up with his split personality- mother living with us on and off our whole marriage- and paid her bills-- we still pay her truck insurance! I can prove the phone calls to the other woman and if texting is admissable-- those are where most of the proof is because he texts her 99% of the time so it's free. He even gets these in front of me and thinks I don't know-- I have both her phone #'s on my phone-- When I first suspected he was seeing her I sent her a text telling her to leave my husband alone and lose our phone #'s-- I have served this with coffe in my home before all this started-- she want's & he wants me to move out and get another place--I know this is so she can move in and live accross the street from her eldest son-- My husband said he can't deal with the kids but she still has one son at home and he is learning that sleeping with married people is ok-- I have seen him get out of our truck after school-- across the street. I have been told by afriend of ours that My husband told him he was with her-- -- All this and I still want him back- one minute he's thinking about it and the next he wants a divorce-- I have afeeling he's gonna try to take me to the cleaners-- sing papers or not? I live in Arkansas. His attourney does not want him to sign the papers the way I wrote them!!!!!!! Please help-- he wants to sign as soon as our taxes are done-- we file the 14th

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