we are in minnesota and have been married since last july (so 8 months). i havent officially filed for divorce but i have a feeling its coming. is there a way i wont have to pay her anything? the house is in her name and she can keep it...i dont care. i make $10-20,000/year more than she does and i just dont want to have to give her any money. i just want to take what is mine and leave her with the stuff that is hers. any ideas?