I was arrested for domestic violence/ assult and battery to my wife. I did not strike her. What had happened is she was talking on her cell phone to another man in graphic detail about an affair that she was setting up with him. I heard the conversation thru our baby monitor that was on. I came into the room and removed the phone from her hands without touching her so that I could try to identify the man on the other end of the conversation. she grapped my waist as I was leaving the room and fell to the floor at which point she yelled for our son to come into the room and call 911, which he did. He told the dispatcher that "daddy" is angry and for the police to arrive. I told my son that I will drive myself to the police department as not to wake our other sons that were sleeping. I was pulled over within four blocks of my house, car impounded, arrrested and charged and spent the night in jail. I pleaded not guilty the following afternoon and I have a court date in two days. She has been playing mind games with me suggesting that she is going to have a affair to pay me back for finding inapproriate web sights on my computer and has accused me of being a cheater. Which I have never have been unfaithfull to my wife. She as been diagnosed has having bi-polar and does not take her medication. She is acting as a scorn wife and has told me that she is going to " make be pay for what I did and that after she's done with me I am going to want to die" I love my wife very much, but the metal stress is killing me. I have apoligized many times, and even started to go to concouseling. Should I brink this up in court? The police are advising me to plead guilty to a lessor charge of public disturbance. I am confused and need help and advice.
Needing help quick
michigan

