I AM WONDERING WHAT I WOULD HAVE TO DO TO MARRY MY FIANCE.
WE HAVE BEEN BEST FRIENDS FOR OVER A YEAR AND BEFORE CHRISTMAS OF LAST YEAR WE DECIDED TO GET ENGAGED. HE RETURNED TO MEXICO ON HIS OWN IN SEPT OR OCT OF '07, HE IS PLANNING ON COMING BACK WITHIN A FEW WEEKS TIME. WE WERE CONSIDERING A FIANCE'S VISA BUT IM PREGNANT AND BY THE TIME HE GETS HERE THE BABY WOULD HAVE BEEN BORN AND WITH US BEING APARTIS PUTTING ALOT OF STRESS ON ME AND MY DOCTOR IS WORRIED BECAUSE I LOST MY FIRST CHILD. I WENT TO MEXICO FOR CHRISTMAS SO I CAN PROVE THAT AND I FLEW DOWN THE AT THE END OF JAN FOR 2 WEEK BUT GOT SEVERLY SICK AND HAD TO COME HOME TO MY DOCS. I KNOW HES WAS DEPORTED ONCE, MAYBE TWICE, AND HE HAS ONE DUI. BUT HE HAS BEEN HERE SEVERAL YEARS. HE HAS SEVERAL SISTERS THAT HAVE BECOME CITIZENS THOUGH MARRIAGE BUT THAT WAS BEFORE THE LAW CHANGES IN OKLAHOMA. MY PERMANANT RESIDENT IS IN OKLAHOMA BUT I WORK IM KANSAS. IF ANY ONE CAN HELP PLEASE DO EVEN IF HE CANT GET LEGAL CAN WE GET MARRIED?![]()

