I'm currently pregnant and married to the biological father. I have only been married for 5 mos. I am 7 mos. pregnant.
I'm wanting to get a divorce as soon as possible. I've been told by friends I'm not able to do this until the baby is born. Does anyone have any good insight on this situation? Why do I have to wait until the baby is born if a paternity could be established afterwards and custody could be handled seperate? Could their be any other legal actions that could take place before the baby is born?
Also if I'm the one filing for divorce does he have to pay any fees for the divorce as well as me? I was told appox. $2400 would be added up in fees for custody child support and the divorce all together. He is currently active duty military, and could be deploying soon after the baby is born. I'm not sure I will have enough money to do all that at once before he deploys.

