I have been divorced for about 4 years now. In the state of Indiana. My ex and I were married for 21 years. I filed for divorce not really wanting much of anything. Well as the store goes it's not just that simple. The attorney I hired was green there were times that I had to tell him when to do next. When it came to my house, my ex was told to get an appraisal on it. My attorney excepted a drive by appraisal, from a lady that my ex and I knew. She low balled the appraisal as a favor to my ex. He had told her that he and I needed a low appraisal for our bankruptcy not for our divorce and she low balled it for that reason and he got to use it in court. And our divorce went on and on, I got tired and just wanted it over with. This same year I found out I had breast cancer and I lose my Father. I had allot on my plate and like I said I just wanted it over. So I didn't put up a fuss about the house and finely got the divorce granted the day of my ex's birthday, (Happy Birthday) Well in the decree it said that he and I had to split our pensions. That each of us had to send papers to the other so we could get that started. Needless to say my ex never did do anything without a fight he didn't send me the papers. So about 2 years after the divorce was over I contacted who I thought I needed to and got it taken care of for me. Months later I got a letter from my attorney saying my ex wanted his share of mine. I called my pension and asked about it. I work for a school system and they told me that years ago they stopped letting that happen. I sent that information to my attorney and everything went cold for sometime. Now he's at it again. My question is: I'm not sure what they will do about my pension but is there anything I can do about the house. Because I know for a fact that right after our divorce he refined and his appraisal was for 30,000.00 more then what our so called friend apprised it for.

