The situation is this...she is angry. He hasn't left her, but is considering it. I have not encouraged him, and I have actually managed to get him to stay with his wife a year longer than he was willing, and see a marriage therapist. He still wants to leave and wants to be a part of my life. Because of this, she is talking about sueing me for everything I own, whether or not they divorce. Can she do this? What is she allowed to ask for? Do I stand a chance in this? She's hoping to get my home from myself and my two children and aging mother...could she? Should I be seeking legal help immediately?
Just as an added opinion...this has to be one of the most archaic and demeaning laws of which I have ever heard. It really isn't much more adult than stoning a person to death in the streets for stealing your donkey, is it?