That is what is to me too! I just wanted to know if ther was a legal way we could go about this since he always throwing the lawyer threats at us i wanted to make sure we werent violating any laws. We are actually being the nice ones and letting him see my sister, In Texas all he has to do is go to the court house and ask add his name to my sisters BC and pay the fees correct? After that shild support and visitations can be decided by the courts later correct?