My situation is this
My child's mother and I didn't have a relationship whatsoever before we became parents. Nonetheless we had a child together. The relationship is so empty that I have only basic information on her: Her first and last name, her new last name since she's been married and her SSN. That's basically it.
She was married in 2005 and moved her and my son to Colorado and I am currently unable to locate her. I have been told that the custodial parent is supposed to inform the non-custodial child support paying parent of all new location information. I have reached out to the DCF for mediation and they said that she is unlocateable. I am currently living (and was born and raised) in St. Louis. The last time we spoke (in early 2006) she said that she planned on moving back to St. Louis.
Since then every number that I have on her is disconnected. I have no address on her, information that will lead me to any relatives. Don't know her husband's first or last name. I know that he is in the military, not sure what branch.
I have been actively paying child suppot since it was filed on me while my son was actively in my life almost daily wen we all lived in St. Louis. I am at the end of my rope. What are my options? Who do I call? How much should I be prepaed to spend.
I know this is very unresponsible behavior on my part and hers as far as communication is concerned, but I am here for help on how to solve his.
PLESE HELP! Any advice is welcome

