
Quoting
Crystal9105
I live in Florida and my ex lives in North Carolina. We were never married and I just filed for custody and visitation for my 2 year old daughter that lives with me (mother). In the visitation agreement that I filed I said that every other holiday and summers was what I wanted. Well that was 3 months ago, we haven't been to court yet and I would like to change that agreement. I have no problem with the alternating holidays, but I do not think that my daughter would understand 2 or 3 months away from her mother during a summer at her age. Am I allowed to change that and if so, how do I do that? Do I just wait for the court date and bring it up then? The new visitation agreement that i thought would be better is every 3 months for a week of her father's choosing and 2 or 3 weeks during the summer and alternating holidays would remain the same. He thinks that I should also drive halfway evertime there is a visitation, and i disagree. I think that he should pick her up and drop her off if he wants to visit. Any help is good I really just need to know what i can do, what is reasonable, and know that i dont need a lawyer to do it. What would a fair visitation agreement be considering her age and our distance, including who makes the drive.