Well I can't say I understand everything, but I'm really thankful for your replies. Thank You.

Aaron- That's exactly how I feel. There's just no good path so I either make a mistake or dont take any path. Stuck. Hopefully we will have a democrat president if what you say about it is true.

LawResearcherMissy- Thanks, you've provided so much information. I hope my sister can still petition for me even though I was employed with out UCIS authorization, otherwise under the current rules I'm screwed.

Mama of 4- What you have written gives me some hope and I definitely need luck. Thank you. My sister turned 19 this year(2008) so maybe in 2 years things will get moving.




I came to this forum because I always hear lawyers can be very expensive even just for consultations and sometimes you can get conned, but it seems, like in every thing else, I will have to risk it. Thanks again!