The woman accusing me of fathering her child has chosen to "drop the whole case" after being served a summons to go before the courts and establish paternity. Since I disputed the child support order and requested DNA testing doesn't she have to concede to the testing? The agency gave me no info except to say "don't worry". But excuse me...if the child is mine I still have a responsibility to help raise, support and protect the kid.
Our case still shows as open in the website directory so this "don't worry" concept is crap. The DSCE wouldn't give me any info about the mother. I saw her at some parties and due to some heavy drinking don't recall any physical contact with her. But the drinking too much may have led to other bad dicesions that I don't remember. I have no idea where to find her. She obviously has info about me. How can I find her and truly get this matter resolved. Even if the mother is interested in only my money...there's still the kid to consider.

