My question and if any help is needed. Im a mother of 2 boys ages 8 & 6 I have been divorced since 2000. When I was divorced my ex husband got custody of the children because i gave them to him. Reason: I was hoping that he would realize how it felt to work full time and come home to 2 at the time very small children. Well it back fired on me. As soon and the papers where signed He moved back in with his parents And dumped the children off and left. Since then the two children have been in her care. There father hasnt had a job Since 2000. He lives off of whom ever he can and lives where ever he can. There father has Never in almost 6 years Had them over night. He takes them once in a while to his girlfriends house then returns them home,becuse his mother too knows about her Meth problem. My question i guess is this. His mother receives the 400.00 in child support that i pay. Granted its in there fathers name since he would blow it all on booze and drugs. He also doesnt give anything for the children and gets by scott free,which isnt right. His mother also claims them on her taxes since there father doesnt have a job. I think that since their father doesnt work i should have the choice in the tax deduction. But to get to the point here. I work 2 job to support myself and pay child support I have wanted my children back for 5 years now. His mother and himself keep making me jump threw hoops telling me i cant date this person or i cant have my children around my boyfriend. ( because he has more to do with them then their father does.) Their father hasnt had a job since 2005, doesnt have a licences. His girlfriend has been on drugs so i would think he would be doing them as well. He's got a seiouse drinkin problem and There grandmother has been charged with welfare frawd. Case is still pending. I dont want my children subjected to this kind of living. There grandfather has been charged with perchusing stolen items, and the list can go on and on and on ... Ive asked my children who they would want to live with then continue to answer living with me. What can i possibly do to remove My children from this life style? and what are my chances of winning this case? Any Information will be greatly appreciated. Or any kind of links. I have little money so keep that in mind.

