As I said earlier, you need to tell your parents so you can get an attorney!You don't seem to be worried about the charges you are facing probably bc you don't know exactly what it is. Do you know if it is something that can be expunged and kept as a juvenile or are you facing adult charges? This is something that could stay on your record. I find it odd that your father hasn't been notified to come with you to court as you are a minor.
I know it maybe uncomfortable for you and hinder the relationship you have with your father, but this isn't something you want on your record espically if your innocent. You also may have a hard time retaining an attorney as you are a minor.

