I am quitting my job soon. I cannot take Ca. anymore, the stress is tearing me down and I need to get out. I have a home that is about 150K upside down since I purchased a year ago. I have about 350K in stocks, 401K, etc... saved up. I dont want to throw a big chunk of this away as i doubt i will ever get this kind of money again. I want to try and save it and just flat out purchase a home in another state.
First, can I just walk away from my home without fear of the lender taking my nest egg? Any advice on how I should approach my problem?

