i was a lil stupid 2 years ago. he is one of the reasons i want to major in phycology and criminal law (that and im into it lol) . i want to plan to take this court a year or so from now. have it shown that i turned my life around for my kids and myself. he will still be in prison.

one thing that also concerns me is that he is on child support yet i dont want him in our lives, so i believe my son should have my last name. (he wont sign his rights overand he has told me that he plans to sell cocaine once hes out.
can that really happen? him be on child support, get my sons last name changed, and have no visitation rights? (thats what the court ordered. no visitation till i as the MANAGING CONSERVATOR agree its safe.

(his last name is very uniqe and only his family has it here.small town. everyone that knows my sons name quickly relized his father is going to prison for drugs. (i was not with or around him while doing it.)