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We do not want to take responsibility once the child gets into trouble. We want her to be in her mother' hands as soon as possible. She is young and strong, we're not. Please help!
You legally adopted the child, that makes you responsible for her actions while she's a minor- no matter who she lives with. That was the responsibilty you chose to take on when you adopted, and that cannot be changed now.

You want her "in her MOTHER's hands", what you fail to understand is that she already is in her mother's hands- YOU are her legal, and moral mother.