To keep a long story short, I was never married to my daughters "father", he is on the birth certificate,she's 4 years old, he is not her biological father (we both have known this since before she was born. SHe has been on his medical plan through work and has had some visitation with her. When I, my boyfriend and my son attempted to relocate to TN 3 months ago(he knew we had been planning to move for over a year), we were very surprised to get served with papers. He wants custody, child support, everything. We went to court, I paid a lot of money to my lawyer, and she told me it wouldn't be difficult. Well, the judge did order a paternity test but he also granted her "father" temp custody. I get to see her on Tuesdays and Thurdays, over night, and every other weekend. I don't know where to go from here or what effect the paternity test will have on this case. I also don't feel like we were given a proper day in court (the judge decided all of this in an hour) and I am not sure that my lawyer did everything she could for me. There were blatent lies told by his witnesses that weren't addressed because each side was only given a half of an hour to question their witnesses. I have also been told that there really is no other cases out there like mine and I find that hard to believe. If anybody has any information for me I could really use it. Also as of Monday I will owe my lawyer more money and I just don't have it. I am a stay at home mom of two children. Please help me keep my daughter.