My ex-wife moved from NJ to SC with child support arrear in the amount of well over $15000++, and besides she owes me (as per divorce decree) over $20K+in college tuition, $3K+ in legal/ professional fees, $3K in joint marital debt, and some other miscellaneous.
Needless to say I’m broke trying to cover all the expenses for a family of five, and me and my four children could use this owed funds.

I’m applying to the NJ superior court for an arrest warrant in order to secure and/ or try to secure some type of payment and CS payment schedule.

Also this lady is in contempt to court for not complying with the divorce decree.

Please advice the following:
- What is the process? Is the court required to star this process?
- How do I go about getting this from the court?
- What’s the difference between a bench warrant and arrest warrant?
- How is this enforced between the state of NJ and the state of South Carolina?

Please keep in mind I’ve to do this by myself due to financial situation.

Thank You, I’d appreciate any/ all advice in this matter.