ok hopefully i can make this as brief as possible. My girlfriend went to NC to a court date on termination of her parental rights because her exhusband has custody of her son. He is getting remarried and trying to take the child away from her. He has controlled every visitation to the child and every phone call. If she tries to call the boy she has to call him first to make sure that is alright. Any ways the person that he is marrying we think has had her children taken away from her by SOcial Services. We are not sure about that but almost positive. Is there any way to check on this. At the court date the judge couldn't decide at that moment so he put if off for two month's. All together there is five lawyers in this and it is becoming confussing. Three of them are just looking out for the rights of each individual involved. The only reason he is terminating the custody is because she wants to adopt the child and we have sent EAster baskets and cards and have made atempts to contact him. One other thing the child lives with the Ex's mother and grandmother for the last 5 1/2 years. He just started living with the father after we sent back our response to the information he told the court. Any help would be apperciated thanks.