I posted a similar thread but felt this was applied in two different categories (I have edited/added/deleted a bit for the sake of relevance)...

I posted here a while ago about being consistently harassed by the ex of my significant other. They are in the end stages of a divorce and she's none too thrilled about his lack of wanted to get back together with her.

Since May, she has called my employer making bogus claims fraud on my part (my bosses see it for what it really is - a personal beef) and even had both the her ex husband and I summoned to answer on bogus fraud charges (citing the same fraudulent behavior she was calling my employer about....the charges were, once again, found to be completely unsupported). I've received multiple harassing phone calls, e-mails, and she told her ex husband she would kill me. On Friday, Nov 30, she showed up on my doorstep, knocking furiously. I don't know if she was here to confront me or her ex husband (he has been living with me since April). She went down to her car and sat there, refusing to leave - I don't know what she was waiting for, but she wouldn't leave until the police told her to leave.

The CPO unit at the court told my boyfriend his request for a CPO would likely be denied, because much of the aggression was directed towards me. Yet, when I filed for a Civil Stalking Order, I was denied by a judge - I guess she has to hold a knife to my throat or something before anything will be done.

She has recently written on her public website that she plans on getting the divorce continued for as long as she can, just to be difficult (we saved the entry). She's also written about how she plans on making our lives miserable for years to come (despite the fact we didn't begin seeing each other until long after they were first estranged).

With all of the harassment, false charges brought against him, her showing up on our doorstep and refusing to leave, and her written statements showing her true intentions to keep continuing the divorce for her own fun and pleasure, is there anything that can be done? Is any of this going to help him in the final divorce proceedings? He is really, really frustrated and just wants to get rid of her.

Thank you.